May 2013
1 post
Anonymous asked: So, a guy likes me or says he does. Tells me how I have all these great qualities he has looked for in a girl. But, he doesn't want to be committed to anyone, can't date right now and wants us to be better friends. I get it, I've been really understanding. However, he acts like he wants to be friends with benefits sometimes, even though he said he doesn't want that at all. I...
April 2013
1 post
Anonymous asked: Hello:) so you're absolutely perfect. And I'm so glad that I met you. You've been such an inspiration to me since the day I met you. I can tell you anything and we can not talk for months and I know you'll still be there for me. So thank you. You're the best. :)
November 2012
6 posts
Anonymous asked: Hokay. So there is this guy that really likes me. He lives 2 hours away. We met up. Went to a show. Definitely had fun. He acts like we're going to end up dating. I've told him that I wanted to take things slow because I don't want a relationship. But he won't stop with the sweet talk and picture sending. The plot twist is he gave me a really nice bong and has some of my...
Anonymous asked: I feel like my relationship is falling apart. I don't trust my heart to make the right decision. I also don't know what to do to "fix" it or if our relationship can be fixed. I am scared of making the wrong decision and having to live with the consequences. I feel like I deserve better and it breaks my heart to feel that way. I know you can't tell me what to do and you...
Anonymous asked: Happy Thanksgiving. I am thankful for many things in my life but wanted to say thank you for your incredible advice. You provide a place for people to turn to when they feel like they don't have anyone else. You are amazing. It is people like you that give me hope. Don't let anyone hold you back, you have so much to offer and share with the world. You deserve to be happy and experience...
Anonymous asked: Sometimes I just feel so lost and alone. I get caught up thinking about life, about where I came from and all I've been through and where I'm going. It leaves me speechless. How can you go through so much pain and still have the ability to bring comfort to others when you can't even help yourself? Sorry for ranting, I just needed to get some of these thoughts out of my head. I...
Anonymous asked: I live with a girl who I've had a crush on for three years but I was in a relationship until just recently. One of her best friends is another girl that I have had a crush on for a few years. My roommate is graduating this December and the other girl is graduating in May. I am here until next December and am confused as to what I should do. I am really good friends with both of them and have...
I've felt the need to post this for a really long...
On December 17th, 2010, I fell in love. The night was to be spent with a best friend of mine playing our lives away in World of Warcraft. It was the week before Christmas and we had a new expansion ahead of us. In order to stomp the faces of all that cross our path we would need some game fuel. In order to retrieve this game fuel, we had to attend a store… So we did. She was beautiful....
October 2012
1 post
Anonymous asked: I have a really close guy friend. We talk to each other about anything and everything. I think that I have started falling for him, and I think we would fit together perfectly... But he's already in a serious, committed relationship and has no idea of what I'm feeling. I want the best for him and his girlfriend, but it's hard not to hold on to hope. Do you have any advice on how I...
September 2012
1 post
Anonymous asked: I miss one of my friends. To the point that when I finally see them I know I'm going to cry. And not just a little tear, I'm gonna ball. Hes been there for me so much even if he doesn't even know it. Whenever I face a problem, I think about what he would tell me. And I don'tknow how to tell him how much he means to me. I see his picture and my entire day is a million times...
August 2012
5 posts
Anonymous asked: My dad is serious the biggest piece of shit ever. And he's in jail. And my biggest fear is that when he gets out he's going to try and find me or contact me. Should I try to get emancipated from him? Or get a restraining order? I don't know what to do anymore about the whole situation.
Anonymous asked: So here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for two months now. Everything was great, but then it went downhill. I'm a big no-no person when it comes to drugs, and I made that clear when we dated. I recently saw he was talking to his friend about smoking pot one more time. I was really devastated about this. I lost complete trust in him after that even though we talked it through. He...
Anonymous asked: today i found out from my boyfriend's mom that he is in the hospital and i can't talk to him or go see him and nobody supports me. none of my friends have time for me, so i was left crying in my room alone. my one best friend ditched me for two people he just met this summer while my other best friend ditched me for her boyfriend. i honestly feel like my heart is going to shatter into a...
Anonymous asked: I'm engaged. I am attracted to someone else. What do I do? Things have been hard between my fiance and I but I am not the sort of person to cheat or have feelings like this. I don't understand if I am really attracted to this person or if I am just missing what my fiance and I use to have. What should I do?
Anonymous asked: I really like this guy and he likes me too, but neither one of us have taken it to the next step. Do you have any suggestions?
July 2012
9 posts
Anonymous asked: You make me feel loved, special, wanted and exclusive. You make me reminisce. You make me smile the most stupidest grin, but it's a very large one at that. Just by hearing your name, song, or getting a text from you. Thank you, because you make my day so much better. You give advice in the way that I need to hear it, but also in the way I want to hear it. And I fearlessly stumble into thing,...
Anonymous asked: I don't feel beautiful.
Anonymous asked: Would you ever consider being in a long distance relationship? Or are they just too complicated? A lot of people have different views on it.
Anonymous asked: i'm kind of in love with this guy. we've only been dating for about two months but i practically live with him. He does everything for me and everything with me. We have our ups and downs just like in every relationship but when he's drunk it's like a completely different story. Like he pushes me away from him and like throws stuff at me and calls me names. I don't want to...
Anonymous asked: So this kid asked me to hang out. And I'm not into him at all like that. Like he's cool and all, and I wanna be his friend, but he was giving me the vibe it was like a date. I have a thing with a guy, and I don't want to give the wrong impression to either of them. How do I tell my friend that I only want to hang out with him as friends without coming off as a bitch, and getting the...
Anonymous asked: I know you don't know me or my situation, but by the looks of things, it doesn't really matter. There's this guy:) he's older, but not like grandpa old. He's in college and I'm going into my junior year. Hes really busy with his life, as he is a musician as well. We've had an on and off thing for almost a year now, and I'm not sure if he's worth my...
Anonymous asked: Do you still keep in touch with your old friends?
Anonymous asked: Sorry for typing so much! I'm just curious as to what you think. It would great to hear a guys view on this. xx
Anonymous asked: what if i feel like i don't love anything or anyone anymore?
June 2012
6 posts
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm about to sound like a real bitch, but I figured that this was a good place to come for judgement free advice, so, here goes. I've been thinking about my ex lately.. a lot. I don't know why, but I miss him, and regret breaking up with him. He's in a relationship right now, and I don't want to try to ruin it, but I don't really know what to do about the whole...
Anonymous asked: What do you think about age differences and relationships?
Anonymous asked: If a guys tells me I haven't proved that I'm ready for a relationship, does that mean he doesn't want anything to happen between him and I...?
Anonymous asked: What do you do if you are still attached to someone that totally screwed you over? How do I just get closure from him?
Anonymous asked: I wish you knew who I was when I say I wanted us to work out more than anything. I'm so sorry.
Anonymous asked: What do I do. I've been practically smitten by this girl. She does have a boyfriend, except she really doesn't care about him that much, she ignores him, and it just isn't a good relationship, I believe that I can treat her better and be a better man than her boyfriend would ever be. How do I get her to like me, how do I get her to be mine? I used to date her, and it's almost...
May 2012
4 posts
Anonymous asked: Here's one I bet you don't get often enough-- tell us about the girl you like. Or love. Or your situation. I've always been curious as to how you're handling your love life :p
Anonymous asked: Do you think it is okay for man in a committed relationship to check out other girls and talk about them to their friends? Is it just how "guys" are? I realize it sounds like I'm overreacting, I know men and women do it but I honestly don't know how to react to it. We are in a long distance relationship and he has done other things in the past that I have forgiven. But those...
Anonymous asked: So, I have a friend who has been very controlling, treats me like I'm five and says hurtful things and never apologizes. Recently I have decided that I am tired of it and don't really want to be friends with her anymore. How should I go about this situation?
"It Reminds Me of My Son"
I am on my way home from having a killer time in colorado. I just landed at wonderful “Charlotte Douglas International Airport.” My flight was just like any other flight to say the least. Turbulence here and there. A little bit of a bumpy ride, but quiet. Nobody said a word. What made this flight peculiar was the man that sat at my right. Jackson T. Vanbiesbruick. We’ll call...
April 2012
2 posts
asiamarysia-deactivated20120806 asked: I have never felt so shitty about myself. I'm never good enough for anyone. Have you ever felt that way? Like you can never please anyone with how you are. I wish I could be that perfect girl for a guy but obviously there is always something wrong with me. I'm so scared to date any guy from around here because I feel like all he is going to do is pressure me into doing stuff that I...
asiamarysia-deactivated20120806 asked: I need someone to vent to. I was dating that kid from Illinois but then I found out that he asked some out 3 times while we were dating. Then when she found out he told her that we never dated. But he asked me out. And he said I love you after a week and then he told me he was in love with me after like 3 weeks. I know I shouldn't have been dating him. And I regret it so much. I can't...
March 2012
4 posts
Anonymous asked: How does one go about making you swoon?
Anonymous asked: I dated this boy from RI but he broke up with me due to distance but every since he broke up with me he's been screwing with my brain. Like 1 day he told me honestly loved me and he still acts like were a couple. I tried moving on with a local boy but now whenever i see my ex my feelings come back. I would just stop seeing my ex but we have all the same friends. Now that prom is coming around...
Anonymous asked: I'm worried about my friend, she falls for guys too quickly. She istantly cares for them and would do anything for them. I've talked to her before about it and she says its a part of her Christian nature. I'm a Christian too but I don't respond the same as she does. She has had her heart broken already and I just don't want to see her be hurt. What would you suggest?
Anonymous asked: I'm scared.I have been in a relationship for almost five years and for the first time I'm beginning to have doubts. They aren't always there but but have been in the back of my mind lately. I'm in a long distance relationship and for me personally the distance has never been an issue. But lately I miss physically being with the one I love, I almost feel guilty for it.I feel so...
February 2012
16 posts
Anonymous asked: so i've had a huge crush on this guy at my college since the beginning of the school year, he's always seemed unapproachable.. at parties and the bar all the time. well i was at a party the other night and he started talking to me, i thought i was dreaming lol. i ended up going back with him and we hooked up.. he gave me his number and i've texted him a couple times but he...
Anonymous asked: How do you know when it's time to give up on a relationship? I love him, but I can't tell if I'm happy or not.
Anonymous asked: is it possible to be hurt so much that you feel like you will never fall in love again? because it's how i'm feeling, and it's driving me crazy. any advice?
Anonymous asked: Do you believe people really can "change" for the worst? Or do you think people just get to know one another better and then they appear different than before.
Anonymous asked: Have you recently lost anyone that had meaning in your life?
Anonymous asked: i'm completely in over my head. i always fall for someone quickly, and care for them too easily, but i've got this gut feeling that the person I like will never change his mindset that i'm just a friend. should i force myself to move on?
Anonymous asked: A certain friend of your's misses you and would like to hang out and play a buttload of world of warcraft at mi casa. how would one ask you?
Anonymous asked: I just got screwed over and he hurt me a lot, but I've been friends with this other boy from a long time, and I'm falling in love with him but I'm too scared to try things.. anything you could tell me?
Anonymous asked: have you had "the one that got away"?
missbridgetfay asked: Wow it works.
